Keep yourself clean and bright. You are the windows through which you must view the world.

It is amazing to me how out of balance things have become.  Just the other day, my baby (pshbum.mindsay.com) and I were driving along, tunes blasting, convertible down ...  The dj's came on and started bantering about the way we females dress ... like they specifically referred to one, apparently well endowed young woman wearing a tube top and declared that she was asking for gawks and propositions by her dress.  This naturally, prompted a chat in our car ... You see, the theme of my life at this point is built upon ... I am only responsible for me; my life, my behavior, my attitudes, but I AM responsible for me.  My dress may be provocative (well, not really, but ... for the sake of argument ...), but that is not an invitation to my bed.  I may want the attention, but it need not be lewd attention.  Are not men also responsible for the exercising of some control???