My Dad & I didn't get along too well while I was growing up.  He just didn't know how to deal with me ... too emotional for Him.  I do have some special memories, though ... things that were special just between us. 

My Dad started in the Dairy Queen business when I was 2.  I vividly remember tagging along with Him on Saturdays and playing while He got the store open and running. 

As I got older, I used to fall asleep with my radio on (before they made 'sleep' buttons) and He would come in after closing and kiss me and turn off my radio.  It was my private time with Him ... sort of. 

I was / am a swimmer.  Swam competitively all through high school and college both speed & synchronized swimming and He NEVER missed a meet no matter what else was going on or where the meet took place. 

My dad passed away 11 Jan 1993.  There are several things I know about my Dad.

1. He loved Mom.  They were married 48 yrs before He died.  They had a good, healthy relationship - a rare thing any more.
2. He loved God.  He was not a religious Man or very verbal about His beliefs, but His life told His story clearly in the way He provided for His wife & family.
3. He loved His family.  He may not have always known specifically how to deal with me, but I have no doubts about His love.

The night He died, we found His notebook all prepared.  Life insurance, phone numbers for us to call, everything was ready and in order.  He planned well for Mom, too. 

Now they are together again.  Janna & I went to visit their vault today.  I miss them.  Dad was a rock for me and sometimes a really miss that.  Mom was a friend.   Janna and I both smiled though at the thought of them together forever. 

Thanks Mom & Dad.  What a great heritage you've passed on to us.